I will never forget the first time my daughter called me Dadda!

It was that moment, I officially realized Dadda was my new title which I will carry with pride forever.

I was well aware that I was a Dad prior to hearing this (ie. feedings, diaper changes, sleepless nights, etc), but when I actually heard her say it, my world changed. I was Dad!

I adjusted my mindset and focused on trying to become what every child deserves upon entering this world. I want, and will be there every step of the way in her life. I spend time with her, not always necessarily money. I focus on her when together, not the television or cell phone. We go lots of places and do many activities together. I let her be a child and learn and develop at her own pace, as I also learn how to be Dadda.

I’m always thankful to receive compliments, but honestly when someone tells me I am a good dad, my reply is, “No, I’m just a dad… doing what I should be doing.” It seems funny to receive a compliment because I take my daughter to the park often. Life is so busy and the years pass like a blur. I can’t believe how much my daughter has grown and accomplished.

I saw a meme picture on social media a short time ago and it really hit home with me. It showed an empty baseball field with captioned, “Someday there won’t be a practice to take your kid to.” As simple as it was, I don’t think I will ever forget it!

I encourage all Fathers (& Mothers ) to be as active as possible with their children. I know outside factors like work, house maintenance and a whole host of others take our time away from our kids. But just make sure the time you can set aside is quality and remain in the moment of where you are with your child!

Dads, if you’d like to stay current and be informed, share thoughts, ideas or news articles with a group of peers on Facebook, please join my group on Facebook it’s called “Fantastic Fathers!”

So, being the “Rockin’ Father,” I should end each blog with a rock n’ roll suggestion. Please listen to the new song tearing up the airwaves on 89X, “The Leash” by Windsor’s own Ashes Of Soma! You won’t be disappointed!

Until next time…Rock on!